Listen to this, what is wrong with some guys? They expect too much from us! Sorry if am attacking you but I have been through it. Of course I won’t mention names but I can confess! Ati this guy expects me to humble myself by being submissive, nope. It is not what you are thinking. He says that he has been raised in a family of eight boys and one girl, so women have nothing to say and are expected to be quiet in all circumstances! That where he comes from, it is an abomination for a woman to give orders to a man even if he works under her. That he finds me excessively rude and rigid to “men” as I am assertive. That he hardly understands anything explained to him by a woman even if it tends to make sense. That there are things he cannot do if there is a woman around because they are meant for them (women).
I could go on and on but it has just hit me, “why was I listening to whatever he had to say?” But the answer is simple; I like to understand rare species before I take action. Si I also have my side of story to tell, he must know that I was raised in a family of five girls and one bull! What if we could reverse the whole scenario? And what a coincidence that we had to meet! Since both of us come from families where there is an imbalance in the gender…………….
So at the end of the day, what are you supposed to tell your boss when nothing has been done? Will you be brave enough to tell him that I did my all and this guy refused to take my orders? For some reason or other it got me thinking, “Kwani this guy thinks that all women are his sister?” I just have a weakness, I loathe creatures that like to take advantage of the weak, and if I come across such species, I unleash my true self. Now you see this guy has made us think that all men are like him! You see, he is not the only one who has shown this kind of attitude. Can we style up and start accepting the fact that we are all human beings? An Amen to that!
I could go on and on but it has just hit me, “why was I listening to whatever he had to say?” But the answer is simple; I like to understand rare species before I take action. Si I also have my side of story to tell, he must know that I was raised in a family of five girls and one bull! What if we could reverse the whole scenario? And what a coincidence that we had to meet! Since both of us come from families where there is an imbalance in the gender…………….
So at the end of the day, what are you supposed to tell your boss when nothing has been done? Will you be brave enough to tell him that I did my all and this guy refused to take my orders? For some reason or other it got me thinking, “Kwani this guy thinks that all women are his sister?” I just have a weakness, I loathe creatures that like to take advantage of the weak, and if I come across such species, I unleash my true self. Now you see this guy has made us think that all men are like him! You see, he is not the only one who has shown this kind of attitude. Can we style up and start accepting the fact that we are all human beings? An Amen to that!
2 comments:
this is called kenyan aggressiveness. one thing i fear bout kenyan chics. i hear they beat they husbands. u r sooooo scarce. wats up?
i feel with your situation. there guys who try to make a woman's work hard. u have to stand strong like emma harte and u shall prevail.
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